英语中25种和谐的“吵架”短语
矛盾在生活中经常会出现,处理不好就会产生摩擦,影响彼此之间的关系,那么如何在矛盾中说好话呢?
1.霸烹钟爷Please try to understand my point of view.请理解我的观点。
2.Wait, can I take that back?等一下,我能收回我说的话吗?
3.You don’t have to solve this — it helps me just to talk to you.我不用帮我解决这个问题。和你聊一下就对我有帮助。
4.This is important to me. Please listen.这对我很重要。请仔细听。
5.I overreacted.我反应过激了。
6.I see you’re in a tough position.我知道你的处境艰难。
7.I can see my part in this.这个问题,我有错。
8.I hadn’t thought of it that way before.我以前没有这样想。
9.I could be wrong.我可能是错的。
10.Let’s agree to disagree on that.让我们接受我们的不同观点。
11.This isn’t just your problem; it’s our problem.这不只是你的问题。这是我们的问题。
12.I’m feeling unappreciated.我感觉没有收到重视。
13.We’re getting off the subject.
14.I know I need to listen more.我知道,我应该多倾听。
15.You’ve convinced me.
16.Let’s take a break for a few minutes.让我们停一会。[If you can remember to do this, it’s extremely effective—especially if you’re having a big fight. After a break, it’s almost impossible to go back to yelling.]
17.Please keep talking to me.
18.I realize it's not your fault.我意识到这不是你的错。
19.That came out all wrong.我表达错了。
20.I see how I contributed to the problem.我明白我引起了这个问题。
21.What are we really fighting about?
22.How can I make things better?我怎样才能把事情变得更好呢?
23.We can solve this if we work together.如果我们携手合作,我们就可以解决这个问题。
24.I’m sorry.对不起。
25.I love you.我爱你。